Rashan Cole
Feb 13, 20233 min
Coming back to the Boyfriend details
Remember I said that there was a lot of drama in the short relationship ?
Here it goes-
I met him on the bus , he drove buses for the city transportation. He was a family oriented two kids and close with is mom and sisters, that is main reason I fell for him because it was what I want and missing from my life. Also was a dog lover and he had a black great dane or a lab not sure. A fast talker and always hyping up his life like he was living large. I knew he wasn't most fast talking, life bosting don't be living the life they speak of and I've had experience with his kind before. I did not bother me that he we coming up with things to make it seem he had an elegant lifestyle. I guess it should have because he was using it to get and keep me. Playing big time realtor he talked like he just knew everything and his business was better than mine. Yes he belittle my online boutique and wanted me to be a stay home mom.
So things hit the fan when he had to tell me about a new child he had with his ex assistant. He didn't know he was the dad until a fortuity was done, because she was looking for her baby dad. The baby was a preemie and sick so I'm that was the big push to find who it was. Now, finding out he was the father he stepped up doing things needed. Ok, in between time of waiting for the DNA test to come back, him playing big shot he sold his house. So he's stay with his family while waiting for a buyer.
I should have broke up with him went he didn't want his family to meet me said they are nosey always in his business. I remember a time he invited me to a family cookout, the story he gave me why he was late picking me up, " My family playing around hid my keys from me." So he was mad didn't want to go back, he wanted to hang out somewhere and get a room, I went back into the house packed a bag and changed my close. Coming down from the apartment getting into the car he had the nerve to ask me why I changed, I was upset so I just asked where we were going.
An accident happens at the house with the movers. One of the movers had a gun, the dog was present at the house. The mover was a afraid of dogs and ended up shooting the dog killing him then, my boyfriend gets his gun and shoots the mover wounding his leg.
Now, I don't know if any of this is true because, I never been to his house or met the dog.
I became pregnant but I never told him I was waiting until I reached one or two months to know that this was really happening. Also really didn't want get my hopes up and something goes wrong and it did. I had a miscarriage days after finding out so I'm not sure just how far along I was. I remember being at work had a sharp pain in my side went to the restroom sat on the toilet and there a little blob of something fell out of me. I saw pink flesh like something and blood clots I got a pad from someone and never spoke of it.
During this time someone had bought his house and he was looking for a house to rent together. He claimed that people didn't want to rent their house to him because he was a realtor and that he was going to try to buy their house. Don't know how true that is because I was not there.
Shortly after this I had to move into a hotel because of my roommate loosing his job and I don't know what he was doing with the rent money me and the other roommate was giving him. Running out of money paying for hotel ( he was no help and this also had me re thinking the relationship ). And with limited time at a friends place I ended up asking my mother if I could come back home to get myself together.
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