"Trust one who has gone through it."
If you're about to embark upon significant work on your house, whom do you call for advice? A friend or neighbor who has had similar work done recently, right? It should be the same way with any project or problem we face. If we are sick or grieving, wouldn't it help to go to a friend or family member who has gone through something similar in the past? We don't have to confront every problem alone. It is not weak to seek out help and advice- it is wise. Besides, when we reach out to others, we strengthen out bonds with them. Perhaps they will come to us for advice in the future.
IF I AM DAUNTED BY ANY TASK OR PROBLEM TODAY, I WILL RACK MY BRAIN TO TRY TO THINK OF SOMEONE WHO COULD HELP OR OFFER ADVICE.